Coaching begins with realising that what you are focusing on may not be what you want.
In this video Patch Adams is asked what seems a nonsensical question
“How many fingers do you see? ”
Its all a matter of perception.
Are things on the up, or are you still stuck in the same problems you had ten years ago?
Limiting beliefs and warped thinking keeps us trapped in our current reality and situation.
Financially and emotionally.
Coaching is about helping to decide where to put your energy and asking yourself the right questions.
Having a non judgemental zone, a person who can assist without needing to know the details.
Watch this…its inspiring how apparent lunacy is sometimes where the the answers are found.
(The clip how many fingers? from Patch Adams (1998) with Robin Williams, Harold Gould)
So what does this all have to do with Coaching & Hypnotherapy?
Many people come to me and practically hold up their problem in front of them and say “Can you help me with this?”
When you have a problem and have all your fear or anxiety or whatever negative emotion you attached to it.
That’s when you start to lose sight of reality.
My job is to help people to live in the now which is a really cool place, full of fun things to experience and possibilities.
Or they prefer to believe the story constructed from lies and altered perceptions their addiction or phobia or anxiety tells them, and so continue that way until the pain gets overwhelming .
Then they call in me to unravel the PROBLEM.
So its all about coaching for having more choice and freedom to choose.
Its up to you…..